Ruth Stender

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Thank you for visiting my website.

As a writer, I enjoy connecting with others through storytelling. Hearing each other's stories, we automatically, or as I like to say, auto-magically, find greater compassion, understanding and love for each other.

As an Energy Medicine Practitioner, I teach breathwork, meditation, yoga and self-healing. I also serve as a spiritual friend to those facing end-of-life while helping loved ones navigate this sacred event.

I look forward to connecting with you.

I am an award-winning author in both memoir and spiritually based self-help. My unpublished manuscript, Glowing Houses: An Appalachian Girl’s Search for Belonging, took second place in the nonfiction/memoir category in the Pacific Northwest Writers Association literary contest. My unpublished manuscript is complete (~86,000 words) and I have a full proposal that includes the following: table of contents; chapter-by-chapter outline; synopsis; competitive titles; marketing plan; full bio; and three sample chapters.

Memoir synopsis:

Glowing Houses: An Appalachian Girl’s Search for Belonging is a coming-of-age memoir about a girl who grew up on the outskirts of a small town in West Virginia. By age fourteen, in the summer of 1979 and less than a year after getting her period, she finds herself pregnant and married—the quintessential hillbilly story.

She leaves the holler and her family to live with her new husband’s family for what promises to be a better life, but a life that puts her face-to-face with The Outsiders, people her father say to avoid: church people, gays, blacks, white trash and snobs who use fancy words—but the very people who become her salvation.

She struggles with a never-ending internal conflict, a duality: she feels naturally very smart and capable, but her profound ignorance makes her feel stupid. Over time, she eventually has a shift in understanding. She learns that black people are not out to cut her throat, that church people, mostly, have good intentions, and that people who use fancy words are the ones to imitate. In the course of her journey, she learns the meaning of words like unorthodox and gullible, how to order food from a menu, and that ignorance and stupidity are not the same thing. Although ignorant, she is not stupid.

Glowing Houses is a nuanced, deeply felt memoir that both explores and explodes the stereotypes of the Appalachian hillbilly.

My Books

  • Glowing Houses: An Appalachian Girl's Memoir (unpublished, ms. complete)
  • The Magic of Memoir
  • The Eight Aspects of God: A Pathway to Bliss
  • Trinity of Truth: It's Not About You | How to Stop Taking Things Personally (unpublished, ms. 60% complete)

Recent Posts

  • Philosophy: An Antidote to Stupidity
  • Using the Breath to Build Resilience
  • A Prayer for Peace

What I’m Reading

What I’m Reading

Here's what's in my pile of books these days: The Yoga of Jesus, … more>

“I know nothing except the fact of my ignorance.” ~Socrates *** In my quest to overcome ignorance, I have found Socrates. Philosophy. I am currently reading from (more like studying) two books:   The Socratic Method: A Practitioner’s Handbook, by Ward Farnsworth. Philosophy 101 by Socrates: An Introduction to Philosophy via Plato’s Apology, by Peter […]

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